marriage & religion - why to marry
to marry ?
to that, wich is settling you too, and also your futur kinds, does not
need some tought ?
you really free, or dutyful for your partner or family ? The answer must be yes
for you and your partner...
is as strong as you improve a longing for to be always together. But will
you in love for him/her for ever, with daily disputs, inavoidable conflicts,
illness, old age? This sexual
is more much slave of your
libido than outcome of a freedom..
and more much wedding is a contract for all your life. Divorce is not a
solution, even if it's possible.
it's not enough : Is he / she the good person
for you ?
more advices :
the time to know your partner: time of engagement ! Time of separation, to test
loneliness, independance and freedom.
you are not ready, let say that! If your partner love realy he'll wait for you.
If he is impatient, it's a bad symptom!
ready whith other : Talking with friend or a psychologist and conjugal
churches offer meeting places where you can meet persons who are married
soon, and talk with them...
on this point :
Because to the depths of me, I
long to love one person,
With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...
Because I need a forever
friend to trust with the intimacies of me,
Who won't hold them against me,
Who loves me when I'm unlikable,
Who sees the small child in me, and
Who looks for the divine potential of me...
Because I need to cuddle in
the warmth of the night
With someone who thanks God for me,
With someone I feel blessed to hold...
Because marriage means
To grow in love in friendship...
Because marriage is a
To be added to a list of achievements...
Because marriages do not fail,
When they enter into marriage
Expecting another to make them whole...
Because, knowing this,
I promise myself to take full responsibility
For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness
I create me,
I take half of the responsibility for my marriage
Together we create our marriage...
Because with this
The possibilities are limitless.